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  1. Advice provided by a female adviser

    Replying to: Finding a place to live in london

    han in leicester advised: 5-star advice rating

    I have a lot of friends living in London and you're right, it is expensive, particularly when you're just starting out. Whether you can afford to rent somewhere just the two of you depends on several factors. Firstly, it depends on how much you can afford to pay in rent, bills, cost of living etc....

  2. Advice provided by a male adviser

    Replying to: my boyfriend losing interest in me

    noworriezaga in Geneva advised: 5-star advice rating

    Pretty much agree with Rosie on this one. Your boyfriend is part of the majority of people who masturbate, whether they use porn, sex toys, or not. Don't start getting prudish (and likely hypocritical) hang-ups about this.

    You need to talk to him about it? No you don't! You've already made...

  3. Advice provided by a female adviser

    Replying to: my boyfriend losing interest in me

    rosieg in Manchester advised: 5-star advice rating

    Lots of men do this. At least you know now. There is nothing dirty about it. Men are different to us. It does not mean he is being unfaithful- although it might feel like it. My hubby used to do it all of the time when we were younger and as soon as the 'secret' was out, - my response was ' I knew...

  4. Advice provided by a male adviser

    Replying to: Cat not eating

    kevinconrad in queensbury advised: 5-star advice rating

    Behavior like that can be a sign of more serious problems. Anytime an animal doesn't eat for a few days is cause for worry. Drinking water is more important than eating for all animals including ourselves so if your cat isn't drinking water either, there's a big problem.

    You should bring...

  5. Advice provided by a female adviser

    Replying to: the future of my relationship.

    kiki in shrewsbury advised: 5-star advice rating

    nemesis hi I have been reading your posts and the replies and I agree with what Han has to say.

    You may have a good guess at your g/f's responses, but you can't be inside her head. I am saying this because you cannot control what she thinks or how she sees things, so there is little point...

  6. Advice provided by a female adviser

    Replying to: Mr right wants to take it slow.

    cornishjojo in PLymouth advised: 5-star advice rating

    Hello, he sounds like he really likes you but his trust in women is on a really low, he has been hurt badly before and he is scared of being hurt again, he will have this brick wall up to protect himself, once he gets to know you better the wall will slowly lower. Men in general aren't very good...